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To cap all recent events of catastrophe. 1) I forgot to go to the endo appt at the hospital. and tremendously- 2) My helper is LEAVING. She only flippin' resigned. apparently life here is much too stressful and she is not emotionally strong enough to cope. I am ANGRY I am UPSET I am just MISERABLE Richard was an hour late home and Michael was at football training so my father in law was livid at having to wait for him for 45mins in the cold. I am not going to say things could be worse. Because of course there is always room for worse. thankyou for reading! Love Jenni xx how to be a velvet bulldoser
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Gosh Jenni, - if it doesn't rain it pours, whatever next, look at this way, it can only get better and it must.
Your helper leaving now is bad timing, but with the current levels of unemployment I hope it wont be long until, you never know, the perfect helper terns up.
Don't be hard on yourself you've got a lot on your plate, if you call the Endo department and explain perhaps they might be able to offer you a cancellation or slot you in?
Love,
Barbara
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Oh no Jenni sorry hun so sorry hear what rubbish day it turned out to be,may tomorrow be much imporved and u find a new Pa ASAP. big hugs melly cuddly cats make my world seem so much more fun
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right Jenni
sounds like a good night out is needed here
when and where???
take it easy if you can
Mary L
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Oh Jenni, it never rains but it pours!!! What a time for your helper to leave?  I hope you can replace her quickly. I bet you wish ypou could resign as easily!  I hope your new carer is even better and found quickly. Hugs Deb x
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o Jenni hope u find a new PA very soon, what a shock but obviously not right if not able to offer emotional support!?
O, I wish we all lived on the same street just one door after each other then we could take it in turns to help each other, that would be perfect!
.......not able to offer emotional support? What sort of help is that? :(
Hope u find someone perfect, magical and maybe even a little bit Mary Poppins'ish very soon, xxxxx
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Oh Jennie, when will you get a break from hassel? Others are right, your next PA might be stronger - you certainly don't need someone around you who can't cope with emotions. As for your poor f-i-l, I bet he was glad it wasn't YOU waiting in the cold.
I hope that a weekend of TLC from your man gets you through.
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Not what you needed right now Jenni. Hope your next helper has a bit more about her. Kathleen x
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Dear Jenni,
I am also sorry to hear that your PA is leaving but sorry for her as well. If she doesn't have empathy and the ability to cope and care about the people that she is supporting then she is best gone as she is not up to the task. There will be someone out there who has all the qualities that you would wish and which you have in abundance yourself. How much notice have you been given?
Thinking of you,
Eleanor x
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Yes i agree-what on earth is she doing that kind of work for if she can't care! YES I'VE CHANGED, PAIN DOES THAT TO PEOPLE.
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Hope you find someone soon Jenni.
Love, Doreen xx
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Sorry to hear this Jenni - two steps forward, one step back! Will she have to serve a notice period to give you time to get someone else?
Julie
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hi all
not so bad today as yes my PA does have to serve notice and also a friend of a friend rang up to say that she wanted the job!
so that is much better!
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Good solution all round Jenni!
Eleanor x
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about time you had some good news
take care
Mary L
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Hope this works out for you Jenni. Have you managed to get another hospital appointment yet?
Julie
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Jenni i am a handy woman .Call me if you need me but need a bed for night .Haha  christine The chocolate eating housewife ...The washer woman .....naughty lady
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Damned76 wrote:Hope this works out for you Jenni. Have you managed to get another hospital appointment yet?
Julie lol Julie- MARCH!!! you have to laugh.
Jennihow to be a velvet bulldoser
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Sorry Jenni - just asked this question on another thread by mistake. You can't accept this Jenni please. When you have everything in place for Gemma and sorted what you are going to do about an assistant you must chase this up. Does your GP know?
Julie
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